I was recently watching a video of a Disney Parade when something unexpected happened— a balloon string wrapped around the hind leg of a horse in the procession. While the aftermath of the incident is important, what struck me most was what was happening before the incident.
The handlers walking alongside the horse were checked out, mindlessly walking along, and the princess riding the horse seemed entirely absorbed in "being" a princess, not at all focused on the horse. In that moment, the horse was essentially alone, with no connection to the people around it. No one was in tune to the horse’s mind and body. The handlers weren’t engaged, the rider wasn’t present, and as a result, the horse became disoriented and fearful. This is a perfect example of the lack of mind-body connection, and it serves as a valuable lesson for all of us.
So, what can we learn from this?
1. Our Mind and Body Are Connected to Our Horse’s Mind and Body
When we ride, we must honor the fact that our mind and body are deeply connected to our horse’s mind and body. I often think of my horse as an extension of myself. My balance impacts the horse's movement, and my state of mind directly influences its behavior. The more present I am, the more relaxed my horse becomes, and together, our minds and bodies align to perform as a team. This connection helps reduce anxiety and keeps spooks to a minimum. Without it, the horse can easily spiral into panic, just as the horse in the parade did.
2. Engaging the Horse’s Mind Is Rewarding
Engaging your horse’s mind while riding not only helps prevent unexpected events but also creates a rewarding experience for both of you. Think of it like going to a shopping mall with a great friend— you’re not just getting from point A to point B, but you’re enjoying the journey together. Building that mental connection with your horse makes riding more enjoyable and deepens your partnership.
3. The Mind-Body Connection Is Something We Can Improve
Whether it’s strengthening your own mind-body connection or deepening the bond with your horse, this is an area we can always improve. Get curious about how different actions affect the connection. What happens if you tense up or slouch? How does your balance affect your horse’s movement? Try different approaches, explore how it feels, and see what works best for you both.
If you’re interested in learning more about the mind-body connection, I’ll be hosting a workshop on January 25th, 2025 (or you can catch the replay). You can find more details and register by clicking here!
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