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Elise Hittinger - Courage Coach

Elise is a Courage Coach, Certified Hypnotherapist, and NLP Practitioner dedicated to helping anxious equestrians get out of their heads and back in the saddle with calm and confidence. Through her "Turn Riding Fear Around Podcast" and bestselling book, 'Rise from Fear to Courage,' she empowers riders to quiet the noise, reset their nervous systems, and reconnect with the joy of riding. She leads a thriving community of over 1,600 riders in her 'Overcoming Anxiety & Fear Horseback Riding' Facebook group. Learn more about Elise's transformative coaching through a Calm-Ride Strategy call.

The Real Power of Reframing

Have you ever noticed how your outlook on life can shift dramatically based on how you choose to perceive things? That’s the real power of reframing. Our thoughts are incredibly influential, shaping our feelings and ultimately, our reality.

Imagine you're stuck in traffic. Your initial thoughts might be yucky, full of frustration and impatience. These thoughts can make you feel stressed and negative. But what if you paused for a moment and changed those thoughts just a little bit? Consider the traffic as a chance to listen to your favorite podcast or an opportunity to practice patience. Suddenly, those medium thoughts start to shift your mood from tense to calm.

Now, let’s take it a step further. What if you reframed your thoughts into amazing ones? Rather than seeing the traffic as a hindrance, view it as a time for personal growth, a moment to focus on gratitude, or even a reminder of life’s unpredictable journey. These amazing thoughts can transform your feelings into positivity, hope, and contentment.

By deliberately choosing to reframe your thoughts, you empower yourself to change your feelings. It’s a gentle reminder that while we can’t control every circumstance, we can control how we respond through our thoughts.  We can choose to change the story we tell ourselves into something that feels amazing.  This works riding our horses too!

So the next time you find yourself caught in a spiral of yucky thoughts, remember the magic of reframing. Shift those thoughts from negative to amazing, and watch as your feelings follow suit, leading to a happier and more fulfilled life.

When you need a bit of help with working through this, get on my schedule for a free call and let's get you headed in the right direction and feeling amazing!


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Hey there! I’m Elise Hittinger—Fear Slayer, Confidence Creator, and your go-to Courage Coach.

 
Once upon a time, I was that fearless kid riding deep into Angeles National Forest without a second thought. Then bam—life threw me a plot twist. A horse flipped on me, pinning me beneath it, and fear crept in like an uninvited guest who wouldn’t leave.

That moment tested everything. But here’s the wild part—I walked away with only bruises and a divine reminder that I wasn’t done yet. Fear may have stolen my joy for a while, but it did not get the final say.

Fast forward to a move to Kentucky, where the trails were calling my name. I had two choices: let fear keep the reins or take them back. Spoiler alert—I took them back. Now, I help other riders (and, honestly, anyone sick of fear running their life) do the same.

I make fear pack its little bags and GTFO. Whether it’s through hypnotherapy, NLP, or a little well-placed humor, I help people trade anxiety for confidence, doubt for courage, and overthinking for action.

So, if you’re ready to kick fear to the curb and rediscover the joy you deserve—I’m here for it. Let’s do this.

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